Sex In The Valley

Unofficial Girl.

Posted on: January 12, 2012

So I’m all for being friends with benefits. If it works for you that’s great, but at some point it comes down to a decision – it’s either over or you start dating. Most end up just being done, sometimes it just runs its course but most of the time it doesn’t seem to be a consensual decision. It usually goes a little more boy and girl casually hook up for awhile it starts to become a constant thing that is a little more than hooking up but less than dating and when girl finally gets hooked and decides it’s going to be more boy decides nope, I’m out. Then you get the “I thought we were just having fun” line.  It’s not a good feeling and it definitely could have been avoided. Often the girl just stays longer than she should. It’s easy to convince yourself that it might turn in to something but when it comes down to it most of the time the guy just can’t commit and that’s where I get confused. If you’re already basically dating what makes adding the title a deal breaker? Here’s my thing if at the end of the night you’re calling the same girl then chances are you either want to be with her or you can’t get anyone else anyway so your whole keeping your options open bullshit doesn’t work. And girls if he really won’t commit that’s his issue. He may not have any options but trust me you do. Guys are super easy. Wear a low cut shirt to a bar, spot your target give him that irresistible smile we all have in our arsenal and then walk over and introduce yourself. Chances are he’s going to buy you a drink or at least decide to talk to you for awhile. There’s no point in being someone’s unofficial girlfriend when you could be someone else’s actual girlfriend.


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